Mill Hill East Jewish Community is one of the United Synagogue’s newest and most dynamic communities. It is big in warmth and it has quickly become known for its welcoming atmosphere, strong sense of teamwork and family-friendly energy.
Rabbi Jack and Rebbetzen Rivka Cohen, who grew up locally, lead the community with enthusiasm, humility and humour. Having joined Mill Hill East from their previous role as an Assistant Rabbinic couple at Hampstead United Synagogue.
Rabbi Jack reflects on the change “The jump to a senior role is huge, the responsibility is very different. But the community have made it easy for us. They’re kind, generous, forgiving, and incredibly supportive. They knew they weren’t getting a finished product, and that’s what makes it so special as we’re learning and growing together.”
The Cohens, together with their three children, are very much part of the fabric of Mill Hill East. “For all intents and purposes, we are part of the community,” says Rabbi Jack. “We look like the community and share its values. It feels very organic.”
Rivka, a full-time software developer, is deeply involved in community life despite her demanding career. She plays a key role in ensuring that inclusivity remains at the heart of everything they do. One of her initiatives, the Hosting Shabbat, invites members to share meals in one another’s homes, before everyone comes together for dessert at the Cohens’. “It’s a wonderful way to bring people together,” says Rabbi Jack, “especially those who not always invited out or who are new to the area. Or simply would appreciate a week off entertaining. It’s about creating connection and warmth in a relaxed, natural way.”
Mill Hill East prides itself on its informality and friendliness. “We’re not a suit-and-tie community,” Rabbi Jack laughs. “If you come on a Shabbat morning, you’ll find a hundred people and probably only one in a suit. We want everyone to feel comfortable and unjudged. That’s the culture we’ve worked hard to build.”
The community has a youthful demographic, made up largely of young families and professionals. Children play an active role in shul life, and the lively family atmosphere is something the Cohens embrace wholeheartedly. “We love the sound of kids running around,” says Rabbi Jack. “It’s a sign of life and growth. At the same time, we’re aware of the need to make sure everyone, including older members, singles, couples and those without family, feel valued and included. It’s something Rivka and I think about a lot.”
As a newer community, Mill Hill East offers something rare, the excitement of helping to shape what Jewish life can look like for the next generation. “We’ve got a blank page,” says Rabbi Jack. “That’s both liberating and inspiring. Our community is full of talented, driven people who are using their skills to create something meaningful. We don’t focus on what we should do to attract people, but on what we want to build together.”
The results speak for themselves. Mill Hill East continues to grow steadily, drawing in new families who are looking for a modern, friendly, and community-focused shul. “It’s not just about davening,” Rabbi Jack adds. “It’s about belonging. Whether someone comes every week or just for Yom Tov, they should always feel part of something bigger.”
With its mix of youthful energy, inclusivity, and deep care for every member, Mill Hill East United Synagogue is proving that you don’t need a long history to have a strong community spirit. As Rabbi Jack puts it, “What makes Mill Hill East special isn’t the building or the numbers. It is the people, the warmth, the teamwork, and the shared vision of what Jewish life can be. We’re still young, but we’re growing and it’s incredibly exciting to be part of that journey.”
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